I don't have any ring at any finger yet people those recently get acquainted with me or new friends used to ask " Are your family here in SG as well? And always was my answer " na...I am still Single"..I used to wear a diamond (small one ok!) ring in white gold as I like its simplicity and yet chic design as an accessories..But then..I got the look from crushes "he is married and yet wanna play" . So no bling bling, no accessories on my fingers..Just my bare artistic fingers(not self-description huh, its from most of the people who notice it)...I thought I would not have anymore problem..Duh... Was I wrong..Time and again, was being punched " still single", " it's time to get married", Getting tired of it...Yes! Pals and well wishers, thank you for your concerns. But please hear me and ask me no more. Remember " I am happily single" YES! hmmm... Talking about it..Sometimes your guys really make me pondered " Did I really get hurt and become the love phobia?.."Did I really get into a serious relationship before? umm... I don't know..But right now I am doing fine and I kind of enjoying freedom...Will I be alone and lonely when I am old and unable? Forget it... It's all fated and I am sure I am destined to be such...So whatever will be will be..
(notable note-"In myanmar, marriage is termed as EIN HTAUNG and if we translate directly it means HOME PRISON") so pals if you are not married yet,take note I have warned you..haha
Ok enough of that..Let's do something interesting..Married pals those encourage me to stay single..and as well those encourage me to fall into the same traps as you do.And like-minded and single soul out there..We shall see whether we should go solo whole life or follow our married counterparts!!!Or simply you wanna go on dating and get someone standby in case you wanna marry? Or you are out of ideas about good dates? So go single is better? Whether you are just out of a string of horrible dates or a particularly bad breakup,lets find out..
(Ladies and )Gentlemen, ManActually proudly present to you the "DATING QUIZ & SOLUTIONs.."And....as always don't try to outsmart the quiz..Don't scroll down to peep at the solution ok! Be honest and testify ourselves that we are better off single??
1. Your last serious relationship was:
Excruciating. I couldnÂ’t wait for it to end. (Score = -1)
Smothering. My partner cared much more than I did. (Score = 1)
Frustrating. I cared much more than my partner did. (Score = 2)
Decent. It was nice while it lasted, but I wasnÂ’t devastated by the break-up. (Score = 3)
Fulfilling. I like being a couple. (Score = 4)
2. How would you describe your last three dates?
Bad. Why are losers so attracted to me? (Score = -1)
Boring. IÂ’d rather stay home and watch Lost. (Score = 1)
One-sided. I liked them, they didnÂ’t like me. (Score = 2)
Not badBut but not good either. (Score = 3)
Great. I had fun, even though no sparks flew. (Score = 4)
3. Which movie best describes your experience with love:
Singles. I canÂ’t seem to find love at all. (Score = -1)
Fatal Attraction. I can be a freak magnet. (Score = 1) The (Fru)st(r)ation Agent. I feel like a misfit of love. (Score = 2)
The Kids are Alright. IÂ’ve been in relationships with a lot of nice people. (Score = 3)
High Fidelity. I keep learning from my previous relationship mistakes, and I know thereÂ’s someone out there for me. (Score = 4)
4. Your soul mate:
May not exist. (Score = -1)
WouldnÂ’t need a straightjacket. (Score = 1)
Is dating your best friend. (Score = 2)
Will take some work to find—but is out there. (Score = 3)
Hey, there may be more than one—and you can’t wait to meet ‘em! (Score = 4)
5. You think of true love as:
Something invented by Hollywood. (Score = -1)
A bed of nails. Maybe Nazareth was right when they sang, “Love hurts.” (Score = 1)
Very hard to find. (Score = 2)
Possible, but IÂ’m not sure how to get it. (Score = 3)
Totally worth working for. (Score = 4)
SCORING
Less than 0: Ouch. YouÂ’ve been out of the love light for a long time and have a pessimistic view of the whole idea, so you need to do something to shake off the dust. Sign up for a class, a book group, or some other activity you enjoy. By getting out and living your life, you increase your chances of finding someone whoÂ’d like to live it with you!
0-5: YouÂ’ve had some bad experiences with love, but blaming your dates isnÂ’t going to change anything. Dating is a two-way street. Yes, oddballs might be attracted to you, but youÂ’re choosing them, too. Take responsibility and take a look at why youÂ’re choosing to date these people. Then take some steps to change the patterns youÂ’re perpetuating.
6-10: You’re unsure of your prospects. Start thinking positively—and take some concrete action to improve your chances. Ask friends to set you up. Post or update your online dating profile and start looking for love in all the right places.
11-15: You’re keeping hope alive, and that’s very attractive. But you could do a little more to attract a mate. Ask friends to help you identify your strong points—and your weak ones. Then emphasize the positive and improve the negative.
16-20: YouÂ’re a believer, baby! ItÂ’s only a matter of time till Cupid works his magic on you!
So pals!!! what's your take? wanna know my score? come, share with me and let me know ok..
(The above quiz, Margot Carmichael, North Carolina-based writer and author of The Real Life Guide to Life After College.
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