Haha... not really because of this message.Just that today is 1st day at work after a few days break and felt too tired as last night couldn't fall asleep. Tossing and turning around and it's time to get up and go to work.A friend came to look at the spare room that I have.He's joining us and want to see what else he needs to get before moving in. After that we went to the nearby coffee shop and had my dinner. And as usual, a beer or two. Sorry Nyi Lay Maung Zaw, I happened to drink again but just a little bit. Not that I dont heed your advice ok!I know you mean well and appreciate it much for your kind advice.
As my gtalk(Google Talk) logged on automatically, I glanced through and found Thiha's there. We talked for few words and he diasppeared. I dont know I got the feeling that he's avoiding me. He said because the connection's bad and he's busy studying. Half way through the conversation and suddenly he's offline. I just wish I am wrong and that his reasons are true.
That's one reason I dont like to use msn or yahoo messengers. And I didn't use it after a trial. Being connected with friends all the time is good but there's also a flipside of it.I think it's kind of serious if it's not handled well.
Nowadays, whether you are at home or at work we have the habits of switching on our PCs. We can see our friends from those messengers and vice versa. We are aware of their presence and likewise. But at that moment, if they sent you Instant Message(IM) and happened that you were busy with your work, you couldn't hit them back " Hello" they would think otherwise. Worse still, if they're not in a good mood and wanna vent their frustration.Or rather you wanna do so. You felt negelected and he /she did not want to talk to you. Or negatively think that they are having a good time chatting with someone else. I personally have to explain it few times. So that's why I dont use anything program like Yahoo or MSN messenger and ICQ that enable IM to avoid losing friends unnecessarily. I dont want my privacy and my right being intruded all the time and neither I want to do it to my friends'.
And you may asked why I used google talk(Gtalk)? Just recently I found out there's a myanmar chatroom that I could chat with my fellow people. I did and I found new friends. And that Myanmar Chatroom, I guess, was hosted by miserable server. Unstable and sometimes impossible for you to log in. You may be booted out thousand times and hence gtalk is the only source(I said the only source)that I could get in touch with my dear new friends.
So dear little brothers and sisters (some of you, I may have told you), let just be frank with each other. We may see each other on that little window. But that doesn't mean you have to talk to me. If I see you, I will come say " Hello" and if I can't talk to you at that time I will just greet you "hello" and tell you that I am busy or whatever ok! and just ignore me if you are not free to hit back with "hello". I will understand that you are busy.Need not to log off.
And I think Gtalk is a very good. Make use of it and put a "Custom Message" there. Nyi Aung Zaw well done. It should be that way. you go "Can't chat now, busy" . Short and sharp.
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