Guys what do you think!!Yesterday, Mr. Brown (Singapore renouned blogger) reported in TODAY that Singapore beat Japan only to be second last out of 41 countries in " High Sex Frequency"..
Straits Times reported today then more teen pregnacy and abortion rates are up for the past few years..
So what do we say!
I guess in general.. or rather for matured working adults it might be true that we have less sex...blaming stresses and many other reasons.
And talking about survey, what are the age groups we are talking about? Random? regardless of age, race, intellect, online or street? I do not go to Durex website to see the details but just wanna repeat the cliche..."Asain is Asain" Asian are kind of presevative when talking about SEX..Discussing one's sexual adventure openly is still very much taboo. Face saving factor is deeply inherited in our asian blood and talking sex could earn one unfavour eyes & remarks. A few asian countries find it hard to overcome whether or not to implement SEX EDUCATION in our school.we are having 2 camps up against each other..one Yes..the orher "NO..we are asian"
Haha what I want to say is" the real figure could say otherwise" Everywhere we turn..the commercial ads, the articles..in the weeklies..monthlies..the fav slogan " SEX Sells" Every where we see bikini clad, multi-pack-abs model selling all and sundries...mobile phone yes we see sexy models flasing their bodies (oops phones haha)....condominium yes..we see model swimming in yet-to-build pools.. and there are many kind of articles on sex guides on how to get tip-top orgasm.. or how to please the opposite sex on bed..the DOs and DONTs... So actually what I feel it our teens are well informed and they are putting their knowledges in good use..( there we have many teen abortions I guess..
Though one can pick up ONS partner from pubs, clubs..I can say..Sex is a lot more easier with the help of internet..In the chat rooms, one can just talk about any sexual fantacies..(cyber sex)..then.. phone sex...lastly.."real sex" and having best and effective public transport and tiny island... travelling to meet potential partner is not a problem...Having a car of your own? hmmmm..not a plus.. many plus plus...
Sex is part of our life..old or young... we have teens experimenting sex. We have adults getting regular dose of sex.. we have uncles travelling regularly to Batam for their shares..so..dont you all think that sex is very much a part of our life.. we have sex.. everyone is having sex...but we dont want to talk about it...
But hey...AIDS, STD.. will talk to us.. if we dont talk among us..I am on " PLAY IT SAFE"...I have every reason not to use condom.. sensation or whatsoever you name..but after having sex I just dont want to live in fear...you know even using condom regularly, sometimes when I felt a small itch ... omg.. the feeling is killing sort..
I used to hear this from friends he/she looks clean and free of STDs..well my advice is always..." Most of PWA(people with AIDS) dont know how they get it..they also think their partners look clean and healthy..the moment they know it..its too late..
So guys( or if some teens stumble upon this blogs).. the stake is too high..dont gamble with life... SAFE SEX is not just for momentary pleasure but good for after match as well..(Also can prevent unwanted pregnancy, boys)..
But one thing I wonder after reading that THE BODY SHOP is selling "COIN PURSE with a secret flap". I think putting up a condom vending machines at 711 and Cheers could fulfil the purpose better...
Personally, I dont feel good carrying around condoms everywhere...and buying it over the counter is also not very good option for EVERYONE (teen!..well I am not promoting sex or guiding teen for premature sex but it is less intimidating getting condoms from vending machine and the chance of teens, or even adults,making use of the condoms would be higher I am sure.
What do you think?
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